Friday, January 25, 2019

How can we successful all the time?


Every human being born as a winner and a leader. The fact is, one sperm leading out of 7 million sperms reach the womb. That’s nothing but you and me, we born into this world. By birth, we lead and win out of 7 million competitors. We born and come as a leader into this world.

Then, where those leadership qualities gone? The challenge after we born, we are conditioned from our mother’s womb. Our father says, Engineer is on the way, Uncle says Doctor is on the way, the list goes on. We like it or don’t like it, everyone surrounding will start conditioning us. Parents, teachers, friends, family, neighbors, society, the list goes on. Then, we started assuming ourselves, what other says about us. That’s how the mind built with limitations & conditions and slowly we accept ourselves as the limitations of those.

Just take a minute to think consciously. What all are the dusts we allowed ourselves to put on us. You can’t be leader, you can only do this much, you can’t do that…etc etc. These all are just the thoughts of others. Not the facts. You can be successful as one thought. You are going to fail is just another thought. It’s all about which thought we want to feed to grow? It’s up to us.

In my perspective, couple of behaviors or factors which made us to fail to become a successful person,
  •           Laziness
  •           Procrastination
  •           Fear of failure
If we can come out of those, we can do whatever we want to do in our life. Next time, when we are avoiding doing something, ask the question consciously, because of the above factors am I not doing now, then consciously break that pattern and do it immediately. We challenge ourselves with the thought I want to do it because I want to break the laziness, or I want to break the procrastination. Whatever can be the result, let it be. I am not seriously bother about the result, but I want to enjoy the process of doing. Tomorrow whatever happen, let it happen and its going to be another experience in my life. Just keep these thoughts always top our of mind.

My master provides me a mantra to succeed anything and I am sharing it here,

The mantra is, if you want to succeed anything, you have to focus on only two things,
  •           What is the environment to be created and
  •           What is the process to be followed?
For example, If we want to cook the rice what do we supposed to do?

Step-1: Take a pot
Step-2: Put a choked rice
Step-3: Water it
Step-4: lit the fire
Step-5: Wait for sometime
Step-6: Now the cooked rice is ready

In the above, we just create the environment with required ingredients and follow the process from Step-1 to Step-6. That’s all. Everything happened naturally. It’s all about to gain the knowledge of the universal laws about what the environment to be created and what the process to be followed. That’s all and that’s simple.

So, always be a successful person is a simple process.  

Impossible is not a fact, it’s just a thought.

“You can” also a thought & “You can’t” also a thought. So, consciously come out of the limitations of our mind and attain your desires whatever it can be. Success is always yours. All the very best!!!

                                                                                             With Infinite Love,
                                                                                                    Ribai. N

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